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The Twelve Questions We Are Asked Most
Short answers to the things people write in about, with somewhere to go for the longer version.
Written by the Mapple Gems workshop, Surat · Updated 14 October 2026
Short answer
If you read nothing else: ask for gram weight and shank thickness at the base in millimetres before ordering; ask for the side elevation with profile height before approving a CAD; and get the written specification in your hands afterwards. Those three requests prevent most of what people write to us about later, and every one of them is free.
Twelve questions, in the order we get them. Each answer is deliberately short; the linked article is there when the short version is not enough.
Nearly every question below is really the same question — how do I check something when I cannot hold the object — and the answer is almost always a number rather than a reassurance. People ask whether a seller is trustworthy, whether a stone is good, whether a price is fair. Those are hard to answer as stated and easy to answer once converted: gram weight can be checked against a public gold price; millimetres can be checked against the standard for a stated weight; shank thickness predicts how long a ring lasts; a part-finished photograph cannot be produced by anyone who did not make the piece. None of those requires expertise, a loupe or trust — only that somebody answers. And that is the actual test. A workshop knows its own numbers and gives them without hesitation. A seller passing an order down a chain has to go and ask, or offers adjectives instead. The pattern of the reply tells you more than the reply does, which is why we keep returning to the same handful of requests across every article on this site.
Before you buy
1. How do I know a seller actually makes what they sell?
Ask for a photograph of a piece cast but not yet set. Nobody photographs a half-finished ring for a catalogue, so a workshop produces one in minutes and a reseller cannot obtain one at any price. See how to check whether a brand makes its own pieces.
2. How do I compare two rings that look identical?
On six specifications: metal and karat, gram weight, centre stone millimetres, accent count and size, shank width and thickness, and production plus transit days separately. The blank cells do the comparing. See how to compare two rings.
3. Is a bigger stone at the same price a better deal?
Not if it measures larger than standard for its weight — that means it was cut shallow to spread, which returns less light. A round at one carat should be about 6.5 mm.
4. Which grades should I actually pay for?
Match colour to metal: in yellow or rose gold, H–I reads white; in white gold or platinum, G or better. On clarity, SI1 is usually eye-clean under a carat — and position beats grade, so open the plot diagram.
While it is being made
5. What is the single most important thing to ask?
“Can I see the side elevation with the profile height in millimetres?” The top-down render everyone approves from hides profile height, gallery, taper and total width — all of which are fixed permanently at casting. See how to read a CAD render.
6. How thick should the shank be?
1.8 mm at the base for daily wear, 2 mm for working hands — measured at the base, not the shoulders, where a taper flatters. It is the number that decides whether a reshank comes at year twelve or year twenty-five.
7. Can I still change my mind?
Before the wax, almost everything is a file edit. After casting, only the separate components — stone, head, finish, shank — can change. See changing your mind at the CAD stage.
8. How long will it take?
Ask for production days and transit days as two separate numbers. A checkout estimate is transit only and omits the bench entirely.
After it arrives
9. It looks smaller than the photographs. Is something wrong?
No. Product photography is shot at close range under directional light and chosen from hundreds of frames, so a real ring correctly looks smaller and calmer. Check it against the written specification rather than the images.
10. Why does it look dull already?
Almost always film on the pavilion — the underside, where light enters and leaves — from lotion and soap. Warm water, a drop of washing-up liquid, a soft brush from underneath, weekly. The table can look perfectly clean while this is happening.
11. What maintenance does it actually need?
A bench check every two years for a ring, yearly for anything with a clasp. And one instruction every time: “do not polish”, which is done by default and removes metal each time. See what a bench check involves.
12. What paperwork should I keep?
The written specification, photographs including the marks inside the shank, any report with its inscription number noted separately, and a dated appraisal. Stored digitally, separately from the jewellery. See the paperwork, by what you might need it for.
Four we are asked and cannot answer
- “Is this stone lab grown or mined?” from a photograph — nobody can tell. They are the same material and it needs laboratory equipment. The girdle inscription settles it.
- “What is my ring worth?” from images — a valuation needs the object in hand, and a figure guessed from a photograph is worse than none.
- “How thick is that shank?” from an image — a photograph has no scale. Put a ruler in the frame.
- “What grade is this moissanite?” — no laboratory grades moissanite, so any grades attached to one are a seller’s assessment rather than certified facts.
Keep reading
Frequently asked questions
What should I ask before buying a ring online?
Gram weight, shank thickness at the base in millimetres, and a photograph of a piece cast but not yet set. All three are free to ask, and the pattern of the reply tells you more than the reply does — a workshop knows its own numbers.
Why does my new ring look dull?
Almost always film on the pavilion — the underside where light enters and leaves — from lotion and soap. The table can look perfectly clean while it happens. Warm water, a drop of washing-up liquid and a soft brush used from underneath, weekly.
Is a larger stone at the same carat a better buy?
No — measuring larger than standard for the weight means the stone was cut shallow to spread, which returns less light. A round sold as one carat should measure about 6.5 mm, and the measurements line on the report shows it.
How often does a ring need checking?
Every two years for a ring, yearly for anything with a clasp or many small settings. Prong tips flatten gradually and are visible under a loupe years before a stone is at risk. Say “do not polish” every time, since it is done by default and removes metal.
Ask us any of these — or the one that is not on the list.
If the honest answer is “that needs a bench”, we will say that instead of guessing.



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