Step 1
Design & Selection
We finalise your design and hand-pick the certified center stone.
Save 20%A marquise cut and a pear cut lab grown diamond set side by side and tilted toward one another on a plain slim band. Toi et Moi means you and me, and the design is literal. Two stones, not one, leaning together at the centre of the ring. What makes this particular pairing work is that both shapes are pointed at one end and rounded at the other, so setting them in opposition creates a symmetry that neither stone has on its own. The marquise points outward on one side, the pear points down on the other, and their curved bodies meet in the middle. Napoleon gave Josephine a Toi et Moi in 1796 and the style has never really left. E colour, VVS2 clarity throughout, free IGI certificate. Made to order in Surat in ten metals and four carat weights.
Available in 925 sterling silver, 10K yellow gold, 10K rose gold, 10K white gold, 14K yellow gold, 14K rose gold, 14K white gold, 18K yellow gold, 18K rose gold and 18K white gold. With two stones meeting at the centre, the small amount of metal between them is what separates one from the other. Yellow and rose gold draw that dividing line clearly, white gold lets the pair read as one continuous form. For daily wear 14K is harder than 18K and better protects the points of both stones.
Every ring is made to your finger size, so choose your size at checkout. If you are unsure, measure the inside diameter of a ring you already wear or ask us for a free size guide before ordering.
We can change either stone to a different shape, set the two in matching shapes instead, add pave to the shoulders, or set a small diamond in the gap where they meet. For any other customization request please contact us at https://mapplegems.com/pages/contact and we will quote it before you order.
What does Toi et Moi mean?
You and me in French. The ring holds two stones rather than one, representing two people. Napoleon Bonaparte proposed to Josephine with a Toi et Moi ring in 1796, which is where the style's association with engagement begins.
Does the carat option apply to both stones?
The carat you select is the total for the pair, divided between the marquise and the pear so the two are balanced in size. At 4 carat, for example, you are getting two substantial stones rather than one.
Why a marquise with a pear?
Both shapes have one pointed end and one rounded body, so setting them opposed creates a symmetry neither has alone. Two identical shapes would read as a repetition. These two read as a pair.
Are the points fragile?
The tips of both stones are the most exposed part, which is why each sits under a V shaped claw that wraps both edges. Protected that way the ring is suitable for everyday wear.
Is a lab grown diamond a real diamond?
Yes. Same carbon structure, hardness and brilliance as a mined diamond. Only the origin differs.
Do I get a certificate?
Yes. A free IGI certificate comes with every order, listing colour, clarity, cut grade and carat weight.
How long does it take to make?
Production usually takes ten to fourteen working days, plus shipping time to your address.
A lab grown diamond gives the same hardness, brilliance and fire as a mined stone at a fraction of the price, which matters more than usual in a Toi et Moi because you are buying two large stones rather than one. It is created without mining, so there is no excavation and no doubt about origin. Every centre stone we set is independently certified.
Mapple Gems is a made to order fine jewellery workshop in Surat, India, one of the world's main diamond cutting centres. We set lab grown diamonds and moissanite in solid gold and sterling silver, making each piece only after it is ordered, which keeps prices low without holding stock. Questions before you buy are welcome at https://mapplegems.com/pages/contact.
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Compare ring sizes across international standards — match your size from any region.
| USA · Canada | UK · Australia Ireland · NZ |
Japan · India China · S. Africa |
Spain · Italy Neth. · Switz. |
Inside Ø & Circumf. (mm) |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | H | 7 | 6.75 | 14.88 & 46.80 |
| 4.25 | H.5 | 7.5 | 15.09 & 47.40 | |
| 4.5 | I | 8 | 8 | 15.29 & 48.00 |
| 4.75 | J | 8.75 | 15.49 & 48.70 | |
| 5 | J 1/2 | 9 | 9.25 | 15.70 & 49.30 |
| 5.25 | K | 10 | 15.90 & 50.00 | |
| 5.5 | K 1/2 | 10 | 10.5 | 16.10 & 50.60 |
| 5.75 | L | 11.25 | 16.31 & 51.20 | |
| 6 | L 1/2 | 11 | 11.75 | 16.51 & 51.90 |
| 6.25 | M | 12 | 12.5 | 16.71 & 52.50 |
| 6.5 | M 1/2 | 13 | 13.25 | 16.92 & 53.10 |
| 6.75 | N | 13.75 | 17.12 & 53.80 | |
| 7 | N 1/2 | 14 | 14.5 | 17.32 & 54.40 |
| 7.25 | O | 15 | 17.53 & 55.10 | |
| 7.5 | O 1/2 | 15 | 15.75 | 17.73 & 55.70 |
| 7.75 | P | 16.25 | 17.93 & 56.30 | |
| 8 | P 1/2 | 16 | 17 | 18.14 & 57.00 |
| 8.25 | Q | 17.5 | 18.34 & 57.60 | |
| 8.5 | Q 1/2 | 17 | 18.25 | 18.54 & 58.30 |
| 8.75 | R | 19 | 18.75 & 58.90 | |
| 9 | R 1/2 | 18 | 19.5 | 18.95 & 59.50 |
| 9.25 | S | 20.25 | 19.15 & 60.20 | |
| 9.5 | S 1/2 | 19 | 20.75 | 19.35 & 60.80 |
| 9.75 | T | 21.5 | 19.56 & 61.40 | |
| 10 | T 1/2 | 20 | 22 | 19.76 & 62.10 |
| 10.25 | U | 21 | 22.75 | 19.96 & 62.70 |
| 10.5 | U 1/2 | 22 | 23.25 | 20.17 & 63.40 |
| 10.75 | V | 24 | 20.37 & 64.00 | |
| 11 | V 1/2 | 23 | 24.75 | 20.57 & 64.60 |
| 11.25 | W | 25.25 | 20.78 & 65.30 | |
| 11.5 | W 1/2 | 24 | 26 | 20.98 & 65.90 |
| 11.75 | X | 26.5 | 21.18 & 66.60 | |
| 12 | X 1/2 | 25 | 27.25 | 21.39 & 67.20 |
| 12.25 | Y | 27.75 | 21.59 & 67.80 | |
| 12.5 | Z | 26 | 28.5 | 21.79 & 68.50 |
| 12.75 | Z 1/2 | 29 | 22.00 & 69.10 | |
| 13 | 27 | 29.75 | 22.20 & 69.70 | |
| 13.25 | Z1 | 30.5 | 22.40 & 70.40 | |
| 13.5 | 31 | 22.61 & 71.00 | ||
| 13.75 | Z2 | 31.75 | 22.81 & 71.70 | |
| 14 | Z3 | 32.25 | 23.01 & 72.30 | |
| 14.25 | 33 | 23.22 & 72.90 | ||
| 14.5 | Z4 | 33.5 | 23.42 & 73.60 | |
| 14.75 | 34.25 | 23.62 & 74.20 | ||
| 15 | 34.75 | 24.23 & 76.10 |










Every piece is made to order — from first sketch to the final polish.
Step 1
We finalise your design and hand-pick the certified center stone.
Step 2
Master jewelers cast and shape the band to exact specifications.
Step 3
Each stone is hand-set and the piece is polished to a mirror finish.
Step 4
Final inspection, certification, and luxury gift packaging.
Real diamonds grown in a lab — chemically and optically identical to mined diamonds, graded on the same 4Cs, at a lower price and conflict-free.
All metal is solid (10K/14K/18K gold or platinum), never plated.
Yes — share your idea and we'll craft it with a CAD preview before production.
Yes, IGI/GIA certificates ship with every lab-grown diamond.
Made-to-order pieces ship in about 7–8 business days with insured tracking. Free worldwide.
Yes, we ship worldwide. Import duties may apply by country.
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30-day return or exchange on eligible items. Custom/engraved pieces are non-returnable except for defects. Refunds issued ~2 days after inspection.
Yes — one complimentary resize after delivery; contact us with your new size.
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