Step 1
Design & Selection
We finalise your design and hand-pick the certified center stone.
Save 20%Two lab grown diamonds set side by side on a single plain band, a pear and an emerald cut, each held in its own bezel rather than by claws. This is a toi et moi, French for you and me, and it is one ring rather than two. Pairing these particular shapes is the interesting decision. A pear is a brilliant cut, all curve and sparkle, and an emerald cut is a step cut, all straight lines and slow broad flashes, so the two stones behave completely differently in light while sitting against each other. The bezels reinforce that contrast, one following a long tapering curve to a point and the other tracing a hard rectangle with cropped corners. Nothing else is added. E colour, VVS2 clarity in both, free IGI certificates. Made to order in Surat in ten metals and four carat weights.
Available in 925 sterling silver, 10K yellow gold, 10K rose gold, 10K white gold, 14K yellow gold, 14K rose gold, 14K white gold, 18K yellow gold, 18K rose gold and 18K white gold. Two bezels show a great deal of metal, so the colour draws both outlines. Yellow and rose gold turn the pair into two bold gold shapes side by side, white gold reduces the rims to bright edges and lets the stones dominate. For daily wear 14K is harder than 18K and resists denting on bezel walls.
Every ring is made to your finger size, so choose your size at checkout. If you are unsure, measure the inside diameter of a ring you already wear or ask us for a free size guide before ordering.
We can pair any two shapes you like, match both stones to the same shape, switch to claw settings, or add pave to the band. For any other customization request please contact us at https://mapplegems.com/pages/contact and we will quote it before you order.
What does toi et moi mean?
It is French for you and me. The design places two stones side by side on one ring to represent two people, and dates back to the eighteenth century. Napoleon gave Josephine a toi et moi in 1796, which is why the style is so closely associated with engagement.
Is this one ring or two?
One ring. Both diamonds are set on a single shank. It is not a bridal set and does not separate.
Why pair a pear with an emerald cut?
Because they are opposites. A pear is brilliant faceted and curved, an emerald cut is step faceted and rectangular, so one sparkles while the other returns broad calm flashes. Setting two identical stones would make a symmetrical ring, and that is not what a toi et moi is for.
Why bezel set rather than claws?
Bezels protect the vulnerable parts of both shapes completely, the point of the pear and the cropped corners of the emerald cut, and give each stone a clean outline that reads clearly against the other.
How is the carat weight divided?
The carat option you choose is the combined weight of both stones, split between the pear and the emerald cut so the pair looks balanced. Tell us at checkout if you would prefer one stone noticeably larger.
Is a lab grown diamond a real diamond?
Yes. Same carbon structure, hardness and brilliance as a mined diamond. Only the origin differs.
Do I get a certificate?
Yes. A free IGI certificate comes with every order at no extra cost, listing colour, clarity, cut grade and carat weight.
A lab grown diamond gives the same hardness, brilliance and fire as a mined stone at a fraction of the price, which matters more than usual on a toi et moi because the design needs two large certified stones rather than one. It is created without mining, so there is no excavation and no doubt about origin.
Mapple Gems is a made to order fine jewellery workshop in Surat, India, one of the world's main diamond cutting centres. We set lab grown diamonds and moissanite in solid gold and sterling silver, making each piece only after it is ordered, which keeps prices low without holding stock. Questions before you buy are welcome at https://mapplegems.com/pages/contact.
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Compare ring sizes across international standards — match your size from any region.
| USA · Canada | UK · Australia Ireland · NZ |
Japan · India China · S. Africa |
Spain · Italy Neth. · Switz. |
Inside Ø & Circumf. (mm) |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | H | 7 | 6.75 | 14.88 & 46.80 |
| 4.25 | H.5 | 7.5 | 15.09 & 47.40 | |
| 4.5 | I | 8 | 8 | 15.29 & 48.00 |
| 4.75 | J | 8.75 | 15.49 & 48.70 | |
| 5 | J 1/2 | 9 | 9.25 | 15.70 & 49.30 |
| 5.25 | K | 10 | 15.90 & 50.00 | |
| 5.5 | K 1/2 | 10 | 10.5 | 16.10 & 50.60 |
| 5.75 | L | 11.25 | 16.31 & 51.20 | |
| 6 | L 1/2 | 11 | 11.75 | 16.51 & 51.90 |
| 6.25 | M | 12 | 12.5 | 16.71 & 52.50 |
| 6.5 | M 1/2 | 13 | 13.25 | 16.92 & 53.10 |
| 6.75 | N | 13.75 | 17.12 & 53.80 | |
| 7 | N 1/2 | 14 | 14.5 | 17.32 & 54.40 |
| 7.25 | O | 15 | 17.53 & 55.10 | |
| 7.5 | O 1/2 | 15 | 15.75 | 17.73 & 55.70 |
| 7.75 | P | 16.25 | 17.93 & 56.30 | |
| 8 | P 1/2 | 16 | 17 | 18.14 & 57.00 |
| 8.25 | Q | 17.5 | 18.34 & 57.60 | |
| 8.5 | Q 1/2 | 17 | 18.25 | 18.54 & 58.30 |
| 8.75 | R | 19 | 18.75 & 58.90 | |
| 9 | R 1/2 | 18 | 19.5 | 18.95 & 59.50 |
| 9.25 | S | 20.25 | 19.15 & 60.20 | |
| 9.5 | S 1/2 | 19 | 20.75 | 19.35 & 60.80 |
| 9.75 | T | 21.5 | 19.56 & 61.40 | |
| 10 | T 1/2 | 20 | 22 | 19.76 & 62.10 |
| 10.25 | U | 21 | 22.75 | 19.96 & 62.70 |
| 10.5 | U 1/2 | 22 | 23.25 | 20.17 & 63.40 |
| 10.75 | V | 24 | 20.37 & 64.00 | |
| 11 | V 1/2 | 23 | 24.75 | 20.57 & 64.60 |
| 11.25 | W | 25.25 | 20.78 & 65.30 | |
| 11.5 | W 1/2 | 24 | 26 | 20.98 & 65.90 |
| 11.75 | X | 26.5 | 21.18 & 66.60 | |
| 12 | X 1/2 | 25 | 27.25 | 21.39 & 67.20 |
| 12.25 | Y | 27.75 | 21.59 & 67.80 | |
| 12.5 | Z | 26 | 28.5 | 21.79 & 68.50 |
| 12.75 | Z 1/2 | 29 | 22.00 & 69.10 | |
| 13 | 27 | 29.75 | 22.20 & 69.70 | |
| 13.25 | Z1 | 30.5 | 22.40 & 70.40 | |
| 13.5 | 31 | 22.61 & 71.00 | ||
| 13.75 | Z2 | 31.75 | 22.81 & 71.70 | |
| 14 | Z3 | 32.25 | 23.01 & 72.30 | |
| 14.25 | 33 | 23.22 & 72.90 | ||
| 14.5 | Z4 | 33.5 | 23.42 & 73.60 | |
| 14.75 | 34.25 | 23.62 & 74.20 | ||
| 15 | 34.75 | 24.23 & 76.10 |










Every piece is made to order — from first sketch to the final polish.
Step 1
We finalise your design and hand-pick the certified center stone.
Step 2
Master jewelers cast and shape the band to exact specifications.
Step 3
Each stone is hand-set and the piece is polished to a mirror finish.
Step 4
Final inspection, certification, and luxury gift packaging.
Real diamonds grown in a lab — chemically and optically identical to mined diamonds, graded on the same 4Cs, at a lower price and conflict-free.
All metal is solid (10K/14K/18K gold or platinum), never plated.
Yes — share your idea and we'll craft it with a CAD preview before production.
Yes, IGI/GIA certificates ship with every lab-grown diamond.
Made-to-order pieces ship in about 7–8 business days with insured tracking. Free worldwide.
Yes, we ship worldwide. Import duties may apply by country.
All major cards, PayPal, and installments via Shop Pay / Klarna / Afterpay.
30-day return or exchange on eligible items. Custom/engraved pieces are non-returnable except for defects. Refunds issued ~2 days after inspection.
Yes — one complimentary resize after delivery; contact us with your new size.
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