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Design & Selection
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An oval and a pear cut lab grown diamond set at the two ends of a band that does not close. This is a toi et moi, French for you and me, but built differently from the usual arrangement. Most place both stones together on a continuous shank so they touch. Here the shank stops short on each side and terminates in a claw setting, leaving a deliberate gap of open air between the oval and the pear at the top of the finger. The two stones face one another across that space rather than sitting shoulder to shoulder, which changes the whole reading of the design. It becomes two separate things held near each other instead of two things joined, and the open band means the ring settles onto the finger with a little give rather than as a fixed circle. E colour, VVS2 clarity in both, free IGI certificates. Made to order in Surat in ten metals and four carat weights.
Available in 925 sterling silver, 10K yellow gold, 10K rose gold, 10K white gold, 14K yellow gold, 14K rose gold, 14K white gold, 18K yellow gold, 18K rose gold and 18K white gold. An open band draws the eye along its two ends, so the metal reads as a deliberate line rather than a background circle. Yellow and rose gold emphasise that line, white gold makes the two diamonds appear to float apart with little visible connection. For daily wear 14K is harder than 18K, which matters here because an open shank can be flexed out of shape more easily than a closed one.
Every ring is made to your finger size, so choose your size at checkout. An open band has a small amount of natural give, but it should still be made to your measurement rather than relied on to adjust. Ask us for a free size guide if you are unsure.
We can close the band into a conventional toi et moi shank, widen or narrow the gap between the stones, pair any two shapes you like, or add pave along the band. For any other customization request please contact us at https://mapplegems.com/pages/contact and we will quote it before you order.
What does toi et moi mean?
It is French for you and me. The design places two stones on one ring to represent two people, and dates back to the eighteenth century. Napoleon gave Josephine a toi et moi in 1796.
What is an open band?
A shank that stops short of meeting itself, leaving a visible gap. Here each end carries one of the two diamonds, so the stones face each other across open space instead of touching.
Will the open band lose its shape?
Not in normal wear. It is made to hold its form, though like any open ring it should not be squeezed or forced on and off. We recommend 14K over 18K on this design for that reason.
Is this one ring or two?
One ring. Both diamonds are set on a single open shank. It is not a bridal set and does not separate.
How is the carat weight divided?
The carat option you choose is the combined weight of both stones, split between the oval and the pear so the pair looks balanced. Tell us at checkout if you would prefer one noticeably larger.
Is a lab grown diamond a real diamond?
Yes. Same carbon structure, hardness and brilliance as a mined diamond. Only the origin differs.
Do I get a certificate?
Yes. A free IGI certificate comes with every order at no extra cost, listing colour, clarity, cut grade and carat weight.
A lab grown diamond gives the same hardness, brilliance and fire as a mined stone at a fraction of the price, which matters more than usual on a toi et moi because the design needs two large certified stones rather than one. It is created without mining, so there is no excavation and no doubt about origin.
Mapple Gems is a made to order fine jewellery workshop in Surat, India, one of the world's main diamond cutting centres. We set lab grown diamonds and moissanite in solid gold and sterling silver, making each piece only after it is ordered, which keeps prices low without holding stock. Questions before you buy are welcome at https://mapplegems.com/pages/contact.
Compare ring sizes across international standards โ match your size from any region.
| USA ยท Canada | UK ยท Australia Ireland ยท NZ |
Japan ยท India China ยท S. Africa |
Spain ยท Italy Neth. ยท Switz. |
Inside ร & Circumf. (mm) |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | H | 7 | 6.75 | 14.88 & 46.80 |
| 4.25 | H.5 | 7.5 | 15.09 & 47.40 | |
| 4.5 | I | 8 | 8 | 15.29 & 48.00 |
| 4.75 | J | 8.75 | 15.49 & 48.70 | |
| 5 | J 1/2 | 9 | 9.25 | 15.70 & 49.30 |
| 5.25 | K | 10 | 15.90 & 50.00 | |
| 5.5 | K 1/2 | 10 | 10.5 | 16.10 & 50.60 |
| 5.75 | L | 11.25 | 16.31 & 51.20 | |
| 6 | L 1/2 | 11 | 11.75 | 16.51 & 51.90 |
| 6.25 | M | 12 | 12.5 | 16.71 & 52.50 |
| 6.5 | M 1/2 | 13 | 13.25 | 16.92 & 53.10 |
| 6.75 | N | 13.75 | 17.12 & 53.80 | |
| 7 | N 1/2 | 14 | 14.5 | 17.32 & 54.40 |
| 7.25 | O | 15 | 17.53 & 55.10 | |
| 7.5 | O 1/2 | 15 | 15.75 | 17.73 & 55.70 |
| 7.75 | P | 16.25 | 17.93 & 56.30 | |
| 8 | P 1/2 | 16 | 17 | 18.14 & 57.00 |
| 8.25 | Q | 17.5 | 18.34 & 57.60 | |
| 8.5 | Q 1/2 | 17 | 18.25 | 18.54 & 58.30 |
| 8.75 | R | 19 | 18.75 & 58.90 | |
| 9 | R 1/2 | 18 | 19.5 | 18.95 & 59.50 |
| 9.25 | S | 20.25 | 19.15 & 60.20 | |
| 9.5 | S 1/2 | 19 | 20.75 | 19.35 & 60.80 |
| 9.75 | T | 21.5 | 19.56 & 61.40 | |
| 10 | T 1/2 | 20 | 22 | 19.76 & 62.10 |
| 10.25 | U | 21 | 22.75 | 19.96 & 62.70 |
| 10.5 | U 1/2 | 22 | 23.25 | 20.17 & 63.40 |
| 10.75 | V | 24 | 20.37 & 64.00 | |
| 11 | V 1/2 | 23 | 24.75 | 20.57 & 64.60 |
| 11.25 | W | 25.25 | 20.78 & 65.30 | |
| 11.5 | W 1/2 | 24 | 26 | 20.98 & 65.90 |
| 11.75 | X | 26.5 | 21.18 & 66.60 | |
| 12 | X 1/2 | 25 | 27.25 | 21.39 & 67.20 |
| 12.25 | Y | 27.75 | 21.59 & 67.80 | |
| 12.5 | Z | 26 | 28.5 | 21.79 & 68.50 |
| 12.75 | Z 1/2 | 29 | 22.00 & 69.10 | |
| 13 | 27 | 29.75 | 22.20 & 69.70 | |
| 13.25 | Z1 | 30.5 | 22.40 & 70.40 | |
| 13.5 | 31 | 22.61 & 71.00 | ||
| 13.75 | Z2 | 31.75 | 22.81 & 71.70 | |
| 14 | Z3 | 32.25 | 23.01 & 72.30 | |
| 14.25 | 33 | 23.22 & 72.90 | ||
| 14.5 | Z4 | 33.5 | 23.42 & 73.60 | |
| 14.75 | 34.25 | 23.62 & 74.20 | ||
| 15 | 34.75 | 24.23 & 76.10 |
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Every piece is made to order โ from first sketch to the final polish.
Step 1
We finalise your design and hand-pick the certified center stone.
Step 2
Master jewelers cast and shape the band to exact specifications.
Step 3
Each stone is hand-set and the piece is polished to a mirror finish.
Step 4
Final inspection, certification, and luxury gift packaging.
Real diamonds grown in a lab โ chemically and optically identical to mined diamonds, graded on the same 4Cs, at a lower price and conflict-free.
All metal is solid (10K/14K/18K gold or platinum), never plated.
Yes โ share your idea and we'll craft it with a CAD preview before production.
Yes, an IGI certificate ships with every lab-grown diamond centre stone. Moissanite pieces do not come with a grading certificate.
Made-to-order pieces ship in about 7โ8 business days with insured tracking. Free worldwide.
Yes, we ship worldwide. Import duties may apply by country.
We accept PayPal, plus major credit and debit cards through PayPal's secure checkout โ no PayPal account needed.
30-day return or exchange on eligible items. Custom/engraved pieces are non-returnable except for defects. Refunds issued ~2 days after inspection.
Yes โ one complimentary resize after delivery; contact us with your new size.
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