Step 1
Design & Selection
We finalise your design and hand-pick the certified center stone.
Save 20%Two pear cut lab grown diamonds set side by side and angled toward each other on a plain slim band. Where most Toi et Moi rings pair two different shapes for contrast, this one uses the same shape twice at different sizes, one noticeably larger than the other, with their points facing in opposite directions. The result is a rotational rather than mirrored symmetry, the kind of balance you see in a yin and yang rather than in a matched pair. It also means the two stones nest closely, their curved bodies meeting in the centre with almost no gap, so the head reads as one continuous form rather than two stones sharing a ring. Toi et Moi means you and me. E colour, VVS2 clarity throughout, free IGI certificate. Made to order in Surat in ten metals and four carat weights.
Available in 925 sterling silver, 10K yellow gold, 10K rose gold, 10K white gold, 14K yellow gold, 14K rose gold, 14K white gold, 18K yellow gold, 18K rose gold and 18K white gold. The two stones meet at the centre with very little metal between them, so the colour choice determines whether you read one form or two. White gold merges them completely, yellow and rose gold draw a clear dividing line. For daily wear 14K is harder than 18K and better protects the points of both stones.
Every ring is made to your finger size, so choose your size at checkout. If you are unsure, measure the inside diameter of a ring you already wear or ask us for a free size guide before ordering.
We can make both pears the same size, change one to a different shape, add pave to the shoulders, or set a small diamond in the gap where they meet. For any other customization request please contact us at https://mapplegems.com/pages/contact and we will quote it before you order.
What does Toi et Moi mean?
You and me in French. The ring holds two stones rather than one, representing two people. Napoleon Bonaparte proposed to Josephine with a Toi et Moi ring in 1796, which is where the style's association with engagement begins.
Why two pears rather than two different shapes?
Using the same shape at two sizes gives a rotational symmetry rather than a mirrored one, so the pair reads as one flowing form. Two different shapes create contrast instead. This design chooses continuity.
Does the carat option apply to both stones?
The carat you select is the total for the pair, divided between the larger and smaller pear in proportion. At 4 carat you are getting two substantial stones rather than one.
Are the points fragile?
The tips of both stones are the most exposed part, which is why each sits under a V shaped claw that wraps both edges. Protected that way the ring is suitable for everyday wear.
Is a lab grown diamond a real diamond?
Yes. Same carbon structure, hardness and brilliance as a mined diamond. Only the origin differs.
Do I get a certificate?
Yes. A free IGI certificate comes with every order, listing colour, clarity, cut grade and carat weight.
How long does it take to make?
Production usually takes ten to fourteen working days, plus shipping time to your address.
A lab grown diamond gives the same hardness, brilliance and fire as a mined stone at a fraction of the price, which matters more than usual in a Toi et Moi because you are buying two large stones rather than one. It is created without mining, so there is no excavation and no doubt about origin. Every centre stone we set is independently certified.
Mapple Gems is a made to order fine jewellery workshop in Surat, India, one of the world's main diamond cutting centres. We set lab grown diamonds and moissanite in solid gold and sterling silver, making each piece only after it is ordered, which keeps prices low without holding stock. Questions before you buy are welcome at https://mapplegems.com/pages/contact.
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Compare ring sizes across international standards — match your size from any region.
| USA · Canada | UK · Australia Ireland · NZ |
Japan · India China · S. Africa |
Spain · Italy Neth. · Switz. |
Inside Ø & Circumf. (mm) |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | H | 7 | 6.75 | 14.88 & 46.80 |
| 4.25 | H.5 | 7.5 | 15.09 & 47.40 | |
| 4.5 | I | 8 | 8 | 15.29 & 48.00 |
| 4.75 | J | 8.75 | 15.49 & 48.70 | |
| 5 | J 1/2 | 9 | 9.25 | 15.70 & 49.30 |
| 5.25 | K | 10 | 15.90 & 50.00 | |
| 5.5 | K 1/2 | 10 | 10.5 | 16.10 & 50.60 |
| 5.75 | L | 11.25 | 16.31 & 51.20 | |
| 6 | L 1/2 | 11 | 11.75 | 16.51 & 51.90 |
| 6.25 | M | 12 | 12.5 | 16.71 & 52.50 |
| 6.5 | M 1/2 | 13 | 13.25 | 16.92 & 53.10 |
| 6.75 | N | 13.75 | 17.12 & 53.80 | |
| 7 | N 1/2 | 14 | 14.5 | 17.32 & 54.40 |
| 7.25 | O | 15 | 17.53 & 55.10 | |
| 7.5 | O 1/2 | 15 | 15.75 | 17.73 & 55.70 |
| 7.75 | P | 16.25 | 17.93 & 56.30 | |
| 8 | P 1/2 | 16 | 17 | 18.14 & 57.00 |
| 8.25 | Q | 17.5 | 18.34 & 57.60 | |
| 8.5 | Q 1/2 | 17 | 18.25 | 18.54 & 58.30 |
| 8.75 | R | 19 | 18.75 & 58.90 | |
| 9 | R 1/2 | 18 | 19.5 | 18.95 & 59.50 |
| 9.25 | S | 20.25 | 19.15 & 60.20 | |
| 9.5 | S 1/2 | 19 | 20.75 | 19.35 & 60.80 |
| 9.75 | T | 21.5 | 19.56 & 61.40 | |
| 10 | T 1/2 | 20 | 22 | 19.76 & 62.10 |
| 10.25 | U | 21 | 22.75 | 19.96 & 62.70 |
| 10.5 | U 1/2 | 22 | 23.25 | 20.17 & 63.40 |
| 10.75 | V | 24 | 20.37 & 64.00 | |
| 11 | V 1/2 | 23 | 24.75 | 20.57 & 64.60 |
| 11.25 | W | 25.25 | 20.78 & 65.30 | |
| 11.5 | W 1/2 | 24 | 26 | 20.98 & 65.90 |
| 11.75 | X | 26.5 | 21.18 & 66.60 | |
| 12 | X 1/2 | 25 | 27.25 | 21.39 & 67.20 |
| 12.25 | Y | 27.75 | 21.59 & 67.80 | |
| 12.5 | Z | 26 | 28.5 | 21.79 & 68.50 |
| 12.75 | Z 1/2 | 29 | 22.00 & 69.10 | |
| 13 | 27 | 29.75 | 22.20 & 69.70 | |
| 13.25 | Z1 | 30.5 | 22.40 & 70.40 | |
| 13.5 | 31 | 22.61 & 71.00 | ||
| 13.75 | Z2 | 31.75 | 22.81 & 71.70 | |
| 14 | Z3 | 32.25 | 23.01 & 72.30 | |
| 14.25 | 33 | 23.22 & 72.90 | ||
| 14.5 | Z4 | 33.5 | 23.42 & 73.60 | |
| 14.75 | 34.25 | 23.62 & 74.20 | ||
| 15 | 34.75 | 24.23 & 76.10 |










Every piece is made to order — from first sketch to the final polish.
Step 1
We finalise your design and hand-pick the certified center stone.
Step 2
Master jewelers cast and shape the band to exact specifications.
Step 3
Each stone is hand-set and the piece is polished to a mirror finish.
Step 4
Final inspection, certification, and luxury gift packaging.
Real diamonds grown in a lab — chemically and optically identical to mined diamonds, graded on the same 4Cs, at a lower price and conflict-free.
All metal is solid (10K/14K/18K gold or platinum), never plated.
Yes — share your idea and we'll craft it with a CAD preview before production.
Yes, IGI/GIA certificates ship with every lab-grown diamond.
Made-to-order pieces ship in about 7–8 business days with insured tracking. Free worldwide.
Yes, we ship worldwide. Import duties may apply by country.
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30-day return or exchange on eligible items. Custom/engraved pieces are non-returnable except for defects. Refunds issued ~2 days after inspection.
Yes — one complimentary resize after delivery; contact us with your new size.
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